On this teaching, Coach Arthur Peter will share two basic principles on how to have a WOW marriage. To listen to the message, please click the image above or the video below.
Will be sharing some basic principles of how to have a marriage from heaven. You see there are some basic principles in the Bible that can help your marriage.
When you have been married you will notice quick enough that there are some differences in men and women. I don’t care what the feminist movement is saying.
Men and Women are different and if you want your marriage to work, you have to stop believing the lies the feminist movement is spreading and look at the Bible as your guide.
Remember it is God who created us and since it is God who created us, He has a manual how each person functions best. The same applies to marriage. There are some basic principles that will help your marriage in the right direction. I will be sharing 2 basic principles .. apply them and your marriage will change dramatically.
3 Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her, and likewise also the wife to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Do not deprive one another except with consent for a time, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again so that Satan does not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
1 Corinthians 7:3-5 NKJV
PRINCIPLE 1:
Husband needs to make sure to give his wife a lot of affection. What does this mean .. the word affection means to cuddle your wife, give her kisses, tell her you love her (daily), give her some of your time, be just with her, go for a date, have a meal with her, bring her sometimes something she likes (chocolates, flowers, etc.). Show her how special she is to you as a husband. We kind of sometimes forget that in our busyness and take her love for granted. However for husband showing your wife affection is not really an option it is part of marriage. If you are not willing to show her affection don’t get married. It is just that simple.
Verse 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. And likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.
This simply means that when married you can’t just think about yourself. Your body also belongs to your partner. This means things like having sex. If your partner wants to have sex, it should not be an issue. Wives stop making excuses (being tired, not in the mood, don’t feel like it, headache). Make love with your husband daily and even more if he desires. It is part of your marital commitment.
You see men are more physical than females. This means that the way you look and dress is very important for your husband. Look good for your husband (wear nice clothes even when home and not only when you go out, use make-up, watch your weight)
You see when you get married there are certain commitments that come with it. If you are not willing to fulfill those commitments you should not get married.
The husband should give their wives the affection they need and crave for and wives should give their husbands all the sex they desire.
Guys just as important as sex is for you, so is showing affection to your wife.
Wives just as important affection is for you, so is having regular sex with your husband for him.
22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body.
33 Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
Eph. 5:22-23 / 33 NKJV7 Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.
1 Peter 3:7 NKJV
PRINCIPLE 2
Guys, take care of your wife by providing for her and be a gentleman by providing her with security
Make her feel you are going to take care and protect her no matter what happens
Husbands, the biggest need of a woman is to have a place where she feels secure. She doesn’t have to worry about her daily needs. Take away her fears and insecurities she has. Take responsibility as a husband and lead the family as you think is best.
You see when God created heaven and earth the man was created to be the provider. Work six days and rest on the seventh day. As a husband, we are responsible for the financial and wellbeing of the household.
That is why many men are afraid to get married. It is something every man has deep inside of them. The guy is there to take care of the family. You have to be willing to do whatever is in your power to take care of your family. That is your responsibility and not your wife. She can help you, but the end responsibility is yours as a husband. So stop being lazy and take responsibility and work 6 days a week. God says if we work, He will provide. Step out in faith and let God do the rest.
Personally, I would recommend you to take at least 1-day rest. It will help you physically and mentally. Use that day of rest to spend time with your wife and kids. Do things together. Have fun with your precious family. Cuddle your wife. Enjoy God’s blessing. Enjoy the fruit of your labor.
Wives, submit to your husband and respect them as the leader in the house
The biggest need of the husband is to know that his wife is totally behind him. Supporting him in everything. You see when a husband has a wife that totally stands behind him and supports him in everything. Nothing will be impossible for him. You will ignite in his energy and make the best come out of him. You see a guy can only be successful with a supportive wife. If his wife is not behind him, it will be very hard for the husband to ever succeed and take care of the family. The wife is the pillar behind the husband’s success.
Wives, support your husband
Stop complaining, criticizing and nagging. It totally ruins your marriage. You see the biggest reason why a husband gets a divorce or ends up with another woman is that he doesn’t feel like he is respected in his household. His wife is making him feel like he is a nobody. When you start doing that as a wife and not following God’s guidance (respect), you can be 99% assured your marriage will end up in a divorce. Start respecting your husband and support him where you can. Love him as a guy and stop trying to change him.
Follow these 2 basic principles for your marriage and WOW .. it will be awesome.
Recap:
Principle 1 Affection vs Body
Principle 2 Provider vs Respect
Hope this was helpful.
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God bless!!
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